Well this is all about me, you and everyone. No matter where
we are, what are we doing and how life is treating us. However somewhere and
somehow we all are missing the actual “WE”... Isn’t it ? ask your self then...
today everyone is busy with their own life and they are leaving the things
behind. No matter what thing they are missing on from their busy
schedule...it could be anything, may it be bunking office or college or just asking your mom and
dad, hey dad hey mom how are you guys?.... quite strange .. but we have been
doing it now a days as WE always say "I have been keeping busy."
Today I had a hold of some of my old friend. Amit Singh, I have
been knowing him more than 4 years now. Worked with him few years back...
and met him in an induction of my Ex-company. he was a good looking guy, pretty thin,
rules breaker, fight caller, argument master and quite nonsense & pretty indisciplined
guy... well it was the guy whom I met 4 years back. but a true hearted guy. We
have been pretty good friends and still good friends of each other.
When I met this guys he was quite a stupid guy(in good
sense), never used to respect anyone, used to carry a lot of attitude, never used to follow rule,
never used to attend training session, never obeys to his words... in short he
was perfectly imperfect guy. But with the passage of time when I started to
interact with Amit and started to know him, I found him a nice genuine guy with all his
imperfects.
Few years back he never respected the time. He just wanted
fun all around. He wanted parties, bunks, drinks, dopes, time with friends,
anything to save friend and girl Friends ... whatever he wanted is a different part but he was with
his Real Life. He has been himself that time. He never used to miss anything in
life. Whatever he wanted to he used to do it.. Come what may... it was like he
was the only one in this universe who was enjoying his life to the fullest.
Then I got to talk to him recently... after a long time. I was
quite surprised and shocked after I spoke to him. He changed drastically. Now he
is pretty mature, talks sense and takes life seriously... all of sudden I found
him out of everything he used to be few years back. Now he is quite serious
about his life, his career and his future.
Earlier he used think of only present but now he thinks 5 years from
now. We were just talking and he just said I want to make friends. And I was
pretty shocked when he said so, as he was the same guy who used to surround by
friends. Then he said he is pretty stuck with his job, meetings, projects
and all...not getting time to go out and is feeling quite lonely now and then I realised he is been missing all that which he used to do
and he lost himself a long way back. He lost his innocence, cuteness and fun luving person. Today
he got into work and professional life so much that he is missing the Actual person in him.
I have no idea how tough it is for one to get a desired
life. but whatever it is, you shouldn’t lose the real actual person in you. Everyone
is busy today... but you should take out some time for yourself and your loved
ones... again it is individuals choice what they want and how they want to carry
on with this life. after all life goes
on, no matter what...
Just a small experience that I wanted to share.. J
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